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of course its from the honorable sleaze...what did you think?

i wont stop
track 5
prelude to greatness





and then there is also


welcome home
track 2
prelude to greatness




this is not shameless promotion.(shame on you for thinking that) i really like these songs, and did not think that mr. sleaze would mind me sharing some of my favorite songs. so bump this into the new year!!!

happy 2009!!!!

My Best Friend Pt 1: The Honorable Sleaze

see this man right here? this my nomination for best friend number one. my boyfriend, Sleaze.

i have known this man since 2000. i met him while i supposed to be taking college Spanish. but i was too busy being on collegeclub. does anyone remeber collegeclub? well i was lovergirl4u and he was igotloot. neither one of us would call it love at first sight, but we connected instantly. what i will admit is that i've never felt more connected to anyone else in this world.

this is the ONLY person that completely understands me. some days i feel like he is the ONLY person in this world that loves and cares about me. this man makes me feel beautiful everyday.
this man can make me smile when no one else can. this man completes me.

that is why Brian W. Davis Sr, aka Sleaze is my choice for best friend number one!

it's a new day for Lady Sleaze

ive been talking about losing weight for years. never really got motivated about it, and then weight loss becomes a topic of conversation. well in this new year, mr sleaze and I have decided we are tried of talking about it and will take some action.

we have decided that we are going to make efforts to eat better foods, become more active and the ultimate goal is to stop smoking cigs. newports to be exact. now i know this is not going to be easy, because again ive been talking about losing weight for years. but there is a new fire in my heart this time. i look at my children and realize that if i do not get my health under control, then i may not be here to see them grow up. and mr. sleaze lost a parent at a young age, and has informed me about how it made him feel. and honestly i do not want to have to put my children through something like that, especially if i have control over it.

but i know we can do it. so keep us in y0ur prayers...cause my fat ass is going to need it!

Lady Sleaze out...peace

president obama

so i was reading a post by my friend on facebook. and the discussion stemmed from president Obama being called the "magical negro". now this particular random person named Coretta James, who just happens to be a black republican says that she has no problems with this statement. that "we" as a nation have voted the wrong person into the white house and the country is going to suffer greatly for it.....!!!!! i mean WOW!!!! i mean i do not know this person from Adam, have never met this person, but i would love to literally smack the black off her face!

how can you, as a person of color, NOT have a problem with the leader of the free world being called a savior of the white man!!!! i mean, this is outrageous. i am offended more at the fact that she is not offended at all! president Obama is not just some average niggah off the street. this man went to one the "greatest" colleges in the country and then made his way to a senate seat. but this means nothing. to some people he is nothing more than a stage monkey, that is going to fail miserably. i mean, i have heard my entire life was that if i got a degree the world would become my oyster, meaning i could do whatever i wanted to. well, i never believed that until Obama became president. i do not care how much of a percentage of him is white, he is going to be considered the first black president to me! and this is something that i am proud of. proud that my country has, for the most part, looked past color and saw the man standing before him. my country has finally realized that black americans are just as talented as white americans. my country has finally given me something to feel very "american" about...and then...

i see this dumb bitch sitting on facebook,dissing a person that looks just like her. i mean, even if you dont respect his ideology, you gotta respect his hustle. this man was able to capitalize on the popular vote. this man had people standing in the rain, myself included for two hours if i may also add, to cast a vote they used to think didnt matter. this man did something that some people thought they would never live to see.. AND SHE HATING!!! AND I MEAN SHE'S NOT HATING BECAUSE OF A POLICY TO BE IMPLEMENTED...SHE HATING JUST BECAUSE. A BLACK WOMAN...HATING ON ANOTHER BLACK MAN!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

but why does this surprise me? black woman hate on black men all the time..so why should President Barack Obama be different? hmmm...i'll have to talk about that later.

well Lady Sleaze out! peace

2008 is over...what will 2009 bring

2008 was interesting. we went from living in a hotel, to living in a delapadated house, to finally moving into some shit that was nice.

2008 was interesting. i went from having a nice cushion job, to being fired( cause i got a big mouth and did not like going to work) to being unemployed for 5 months, to getting job that aint paying me shit and not giving enough hours.

2008 was interesting. my son, brian jr (who is three and mildy autistic) , went from babbling a few sounds, to saying a few phrases, to learning the alphabets, to learning his numbers (1-30), to learning his colors, to saying whatever we say and calling all members of the house by name.

2008 was interesting. my man went from, "oh i make beats and i rap too", to sure, "ketchup please", to embracing his inner-Link, to giving a big up to Marvin Gaye, and soon will bless the world with some Classic Material, to meeting people from other countries and making sweet music together, while getting rid of the people "hatting" in his life.

2008 was interesting. my daughter went from being in kindergarden to the first grade, from being unable to read anything to being able to read some things, from having two font teeth to having a gap in her mouth, from insenstive older sibling, into an incrediably caring and loving older sister.

2008 was interesting

my 2008 turned out just like it was supposed to.
hope yours did.

happy 2009 people.
may it be an interesting one.

totally random

why does racism still exist?
why do people hate because of skin color?
why are people so determined to make sure world peace does not happen?

i am a black woman. i am 26 years old and consider myself a law abiding citizen. ive never been to jail and have only received three tickets in entire life. but to some people i am a threat. it saddens me that some white people see me and think that i am nothing more than a charity case. maybe its because im told that i do not look my age and have two small children. but there should be no reason why i still do not feel completely comfortable in an establishment when i am the only person of color there. the look on people's faces is like, "wow what are they doing here" or "uh oh here comes trouble".

to be honest ive never understood racism. how can you hate on me because i am black. like i had a choice. if i was its a conversation that i can not remember.but i love being black. i love the way my skin feels. i love the way my skin ages. i love the fact that i am different but the same. i put pants on one leg at a time. when my stomach is empty it makes noises until i place something in it. when i am cold, i shiver. but sometimes i dont think that white people get cold because some of them will wear shorts and flip flops all year round. but the main point im trying to make is that for the most part blacks and whites are the same. but we cant seem to get over the skin color.

i have to be honest and admit that i become friends with white people very carefully. and i know that it aint right but you can never tell who is a racist. i think some racist people do not realize that they are racist. they just believe the lies they've been believing and choose not to question their logic.

this medicine must be kicking in because i am not able to keep my eyes open...but this is not finished..believe that. until then...peace

the black woman and her body

The black woman should be respected. The black woman should be idolized. But instead the black woman is laughed at. I wonder why....

why are so many woman in this country so willing to use their body to make money instead of their minds. take this bitch right here, whom calls herself SuperHead. her really name is Karrine Steffans, and she has made a name for herself as being the "whore of the music industry". she has had sex with numerous rappers, and then decided to write a "kiss and tell" book about it, and then has the nerve to strut around demanding respect. are you serious? i mean come on, you get famous for being on your knees and back, and you want people to treat with some respect! the only thing you deserve at this point is to not have a hot load splashed into the eye. now i will say you have earned that much, but that is about it.

as a mother of a daughter i want her to have WAY more respect for herself then this. it's a strong possibility that my daughter will develop the "shape" that will stop traffic, but i want her to be stronger than that! i want bree to know that it's the personality that means the most, not how much ass and titties you possess. there is more to life then the way we look, but these young black women don't seem to know that. all i will say is that i will do all in my power to make sure my daughter doesn't fall victim those the "pressures" of the world..wish me luck ya'll!

Introductions are in order

well hello. and welcome to the mommieof2 show.

as stated i am a mother of 2 children, Brianna and Brian Jr. they are the reason that i get up in the morning. they are such wonderful children too. you would never hear me say that my children are bad. nope aint going to happen. because they are blessed to have a mother and a father that would give them the world if that was possible. their father and i have been together for 7 yrs and counting. we are not married, but i dont see a reason to rush. the feelings that i have for him are always going to be there. so there is no need to put ourselves on anyone else's time schedule. it will happen when it happens.

i live in richmond va one of the most racist cities in the world( atleast in my opinion). i work for a nationally known company where i make copies and send faxes all day. dont get wrong, i love my job because it allows to be around people which is something that i thrive for. i have always been one who works well with people. in part i just think that customer service is something that i born to do. of course over the long run i am going to have to love doing something else because customer service does not pay enough for me to be able to afford all the luxuries in life. but i am happy for now.

well with all that stated...lets begin. you will gradually get to meet me as i post more. let the good times begin!