totally random

why does racism still exist?
why do people hate because of skin color?
why are people so determined to make sure world peace does not happen?

i am a black woman. i am 26 years old and consider myself a law abiding citizen. ive never been to jail and have only received three tickets in entire life. but to some people i am a threat. it saddens me that some white people see me and think that i am nothing more than a charity case. maybe its because im told that i do not look my age and have two small children. but there should be no reason why i still do not feel completely comfortable in an establishment when i am the only person of color there. the look on people's faces is like, "wow what are they doing here" or "uh oh here comes trouble".

to be honest ive never understood racism. how can you hate on me because i am black. like i had a choice. if i was its a conversation that i can not remember.but i love being black. i love the way my skin feels. i love the way my skin ages. i love the fact that i am different but the same. i put pants on one leg at a time. when my stomach is empty it makes noises until i place something in it. when i am cold, i shiver. but sometimes i dont think that white people get cold because some of them will wear shorts and flip flops all year round. but the main point im trying to make is that for the most part blacks and whites are the same. but we cant seem to get over the skin color.

i have to be honest and admit that i become friends with white people very carefully. and i know that it aint right but you can never tell who is a racist. i think some racist people do not realize that they are racist. they just believe the lies they've been believing and choose not to question their logic.

this medicine must be kicking in because i am not able to keep my eyes open...but this is not finished..believe that. until then...peace

the black woman and her body

The black woman should be respected. The black woman should be idolized. But instead the black woman is laughed at. I wonder why....

why are so many woman in this country so willing to use their body to make money instead of their minds. take this bitch right here, whom calls herself SuperHead. her really name is Karrine Steffans, and she has made a name for herself as being the "whore of the music industry". she has had sex with numerous rappers, and then decided to write a "kiss and tell" book about it, and then has the nerve to strut around demanding respect. are you serious? i mean come on, you get famous for being on your knees and back, and you want people to treat with some respect! the only thing you deserve at this point is to not have a hot load splashed into the eye. now i will say you have earned that much, but that is about it.

as a mother of a daughter i want her to have WAY more respect for herself then this. it's a strong possibility that my daughter will develop the "shape" that will stop traffic, but i want her to be stronger than that! i want bree to know that it's the personality that means the most, not how much ass and titties you possess. there is more to life then the way we look, but these young black women don't seem to know that. all i will say is that i will do all in my power to make sure my daughter doesn't fall victim those the "pressures" of the world..wish me luck ya'll!

Introductions are in order

well hello. and welcome to the mommieof2 show.

as stated i am a mother of 2 children, Brianna and Brian Jr. they are the reason that i get up in the morning. they are such wonderful children too. you would never hear me say that my children are bad. nope aint going to happen. because they are blessed to have a mother and a father that would give them the world if that was possible. their father and i have been together for 7 yrs and counting. we are not married, but i dont see a reason to rush. the feelings that i have for him are always going to be there. so there is no need to put ourselves on anyone else's time schedule. it will happen when it happens.

i live in richmond va one of the most racist cities in the world( atleast in my opinion). i work for a nationally known company where i make copies and send faxes all day. dont get wrong, i love my job because it allows to be around people which is something that i thrive for. i have always been one who works well with people. in part i just think that customer service is something that i born to do. of course over the long run i am going to have to love doing something else because customer service does not pay enough for me to be able to afford all the luxuries in life. but i am happy for now.

well with all that stated...lets begin. you will gradually get to meet me as i post more. let the good times begin!